Maybe you are an ambitious and hard working individual, maybe you always follow a strict principle of not giving up, maybe you hate failures in your life, and maybe you are not satisfied with the present success – you always long for betterment and new opportunities in life.
Your journey to the path of success can be unending. And you always prefer challenges, improvement, and changes in your life. You always love to hold to the topmost position in your world. But what if you find that even after achieving all these successes you feel deprived of something- it is the true love. You might be good at your professional dealing but you always end up with utter disappointment in your romantic relationship.
As you cannot accept failure in your life so in this case also you cannot accept failure, and you find it worthy enough not to waste time and energy in making love with others who are not interested in you for a long time. Now you become more dedicated and desperate in building your life. You start to focus more on the aspects of the life that make you more satisfied and complete. You start to work hard until you reach the target and all your hard work brings the sweet fruit of success. Everything in the world is worthless until you attach your heart to it. If your heart and soul are attached your career then it is better to go for it.
If you are giving importance to your career and your work there is nothing wrong with it. You can choose to build yourself first rather than by choosing someone who is not yet a part of your life. After all, this is the most crucial time in your life to build yourself and to focus on those things you are good at. If you have worked hard in your life to earn a career then it is the time to reap the fruit.
Maybe in achieving all these goals and success, you might not get the right person you deserve in your life. After a long struggle maybe you have settled in your life but the right person is not beside you in your ultimate phase of life. You might feel lonely in your old days of retirement. As you have deeply involved yourself in work and profession, you might have forgotten romance and so love is no more a priority in your life.
Could you ever forgive yourself for passing up an amazing opportunity only for someone else? Will you resent your partner? This is a big question which only leads to an argument. Relationships are not permanent but your talent and skills are the opposite. They remain with you forever and ever, they don’t give you pain or make you feel helpless. They remain with you just like a true friend whatever may be your situation. You would never be hurt or betrayed by your skills and talents as they are within you. You cannot throw them out even if you want.
On the contrary, true love is difficult to come across. So, it is useless to lose your career for it. As long as you pick up a meaningful option in your life you won’t regret it. And running after love or to find a romantic partner in your life is not the right utilization of time. You might engage yourself in many more important things rather than investing your precious time in search of a true love. Love will come when in your life when it will find its way and it will become a part of your life.
In order to be happy in a relationship, you need to be happy with yourself first. You cannot be truly happy knowing that you have sacrificed your career for a girl or a guy. Because with the passage of time they won’t be anymore the important aspects of life without whom your life seems to be meaningless. You would prioritize your success and dreams more than anything else, and the very thought of being on the top of the world will give you great satisfaction and completeness.