They say that your body language reveals far more than your words! The sleep mode with your partner too!
The famous U.S. psychologist Patti Wood, an expert in body language interpretation and the author of the book Success Signals, A Guide to Reading Body Language, claims that the position where you sleep with your partner reveals interesting facts about your love relationship.
While our consciousness is drowsy, our subconscious is very active during the sleeping process, and the position in which you are firmly tied speaks one thing, while the position in which you turn each other backs, touching only your buttocks says a completely different thing about your relationship.
Let’s take a look at the little guide this psychologist brings and find out what the position you sleep with your beloved, that is, your loved one, reveals about your relationship!
If you sleep far apart and faced back-to-back:
This position describes partners who know each other very well and share a mutual respect. Although it might seem like you’re very cold, it is actually a signal of a stable relationship in which the partners have already passed over the phase of squeezing and patting. Now they are enjoying their independence and their deserved peace. Your relationship is so mature that you feel comfortable and secure with each other.
If you enjoy spooning in bed:
In this position couples lie on their side, turned to the same side, touching slightly. This sleeping position is common at the beginning of a relationship and reveals the passion and the need to be close to your partner. The partner who acts as the ‘big spoon’ is protective of the one who is the ‘little spoon’. This sleeping position also indicates your mutual trust, a sense of security and confidence you two have in each other.
If you sleep back-to-back, but you touch and there is no space between you:
Usually, people who only recently started dating sleep in this position. Such a sleeping position says you two are very independent partners who decide on their own and are not mutually dependent, but that does not mean that you are not emotionally connected. Touching your buttocks and the lower part of you bodies points to a desire for physical intimacy. You and your partner feel comfortable and relaxed with each other as a couple.
Your bodies are intertwined but during the night you move apart:
If you’re completely intertwined it means just one thing – you cannot get enough of each other not even during the night. You may have recently started dating or have a very passionate relationship. You are probably one of those partners who finish each other’s sentences and you are very connected. Still, as the night goes on you two move apart. Don’t worry, that’s not a bad thing. It only says there is independence next to intimacy in your relationship.
One of the partners dominates the bed:
Unfortunately, this sleeping position could be a signal of another toxic relationship. Perhaps the best thing you could do is break up with each other before things get very bad and painful for both of you.
You sleep on your partner’s chest:
Here’s a quite common sleeping position for new couples who started dating recently. The position in which the man lies on his back, his face facing the ceiling while holding his partner’s head on the chest shows his safety and autonomy, but also the desire to care for his loved one. It seems as if he’s saying with his body, “I have strength, and it serves me to protect you”. The woman is leaning on his chest, showing her dependence on the partner and the desire to feel protected, but her body that is completely separate says that simultaneously she wants to make independent decisions.
You sleep facing each other, however, you are not touching:
If you and your partner sleep in this position, it may be a signal that you are emotionally demanding of each other. This is a very intimate position in which partners appear to be wanting to be watched overnight. It detects the need for stronger connectivity and can be a reflection of the emotional distance between you two. Also, you could be wishing to regain a lost or strengthen an existing emotional closeness.